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GH-14947 [R] Compatibility with dplyr 1.1.0 (#14948)

Each commit in this PR fixes a breaking/behaviour change described in #14947.

I could not build the dev version of arrow so this is only tested against the CRAN version. Also there might be changes introduced since the last release that require compatibility adjustments. Could someone pick this up from here please?

Closes #14947.
* Closes: #14947

Lead-authored-by: Lionel Henry <lionel.hry@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Dewey Dunnington <dewey@voltrondata.com>
Co-authored-by: Dewey Dunnington <dewey@fishandwhistle.net>
Signed-off-by: Dewey Dunnington <dewey@fishandwhistle.net>