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GH-34852: [C++][Go][Java][FlightRPC] Add support for ordered data (#35178)

### Rationale for this change

No ordering is unnecessarily limiting.  Systems can and do implement distributed sorts, but they can’t reflect this in Flight RPC.

### What changes are included in this PR?

These changes add `FlightInfo.ordered`.

### Are these changes tested?

Yes.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes.

**This PR includes breaking changes to public APIs.**

* Closes: #34852
* Closes: #35085

Lead-authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>
Co-authored-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@cozmixng.org>
Co-authored-by: Andrew Lamb <andrew@nerdnetworks.org>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>