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ARROW-11658: [R] Handle mutate/rename inside group_by

First commit is pure code reorg; all of the business is in the second commit.

Closes #9820 from nealrichardson/group-by-mutate

Authored-by: Neal Richardson <neal.p.richardson@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Neal Richardson <neal.p.richardson@gmail.com>