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ARROW-15415: [C++] Fixes for MSVC + vcpkg Debug build (#13108)

These are the changes needed for me to be able to compile Arrow in MSCV (from Visual Studio 2022) with the following CMakeUserPresets entry:

```json
{
  "name": "user-cpp-debug-mscv",
  "inherits": [ "ninja-debug"],
  "cacheVariables": {
    "ARROW_DEPENDENCY_SOURCE": "VCPKG",
    "CMAKE_BUILD_TYPE": "Debug",
    "VCPKG_TARGET_TRIPLET": "x64-windows",
    "VCPKG_LIBRARY_LINKAGE": "dynamic",
    "ARROW_DEPENDENCY_USE_SHARED": "ON",
    "ARROW_BUILD_EXAMPLES": "ON"
  }
}
```

Authored-by: Will Jones <willjones127@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>