arrow

GH-41679: [Release][Packaging][deb] Update package name in 01-preparesh too (#41859)

### Rationale for this change

It's needed when we publish minor release. For example:

```console
$ dev/release/01-prepare.sh 16.0.0 17.0.0 # Release 16.0.0
...
$ dev/release/post-11-bump-versions.sh 16.0.0 17.0.0 # Released 16.0.0
...
$ dev/release/01-prepare.sh 16.1.0 17.0.0 # Release 16.1.0: This is effected
...
$ dev/release/post-11-bump-versions.sh 16.1.0 17.0.0 # Released 16.1.0
```

We can't detect minor release in `post-11-bump-versions.sh`.

### What changes are included in this PR?

Share update codes via `utils-prepare.sh` and use the same logic in `01-prepare.sh` too.

Linux packages related update code are also shared but it's not related to this change. Sorry.

### Are these changes tested?

Yes.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes.
* GitHub Issue: #41679

Authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>