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GH-40536: [CI]: Migrate remaining jobs away from self-hosted mac runners. (#40537)

### Rationale for this change
CRAN no longer builds on 10.13 and gh provides M1 runners now.

### What changes are included in this PR?

use m1 for  verify-rc-binaries-wheels-macos-14-arm64:
and macos-11 for r-binary-packages

### Are these changes tested?
crossbow
* GitHub Issue: #40536

Lead-authored-by: Jacob Wujciak-Jens <jacob@wujciak.de>
Co-authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>
Signed-off-by: Raúl Cumplido <raulcumplido@gmail.com>