arrow

GH-35297: [C++][IPC] Fix schema deserialization of map field (#35298)

### Rationale for this change

The arrow schema deserialization from flatbuffer does not preserve nullable and metadata of sub-fields in the map type.

### What changes are included in this PR?

Fix map type deserialization by creating map type using field objects instead of type objects for sub-types.

### Are these changes tested?

Add several new test cases in the arrow/ipc/read_write_test.cc.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No.
* Closes: #35297

Authored-by: Gang Wu <ustcwg@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Will Jones <willjones127@gmail.com>