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GH-43633: [R] Add tests for packages that might be tricky to roundtrip data to Tables + Parquet files (#43634)

### Rationale for this change

Add coverage for objects that might have issues roundtripping to Arrow Tables or Parquet files 

### What changes are included in this PR?

A new test file + a crossbow job that ensures these other packages are installed so the tests run.

### Are these changes tested?

The changes are tests

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No
* GitHub Issue: #43633

Authored-by: Jonathan Keane <jkeane@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jonathan Keane <jkeane@gmail.com>