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GH-40077: [CI] Use GitHub hosted M1 macOS runner (#40437)

### Rationale for this change

If we use GitHub hosted M1 macOS runner instead of self-hosted M1 macOS runner, we don't need to maintain self-hosted M1 macOS runner.

### What changes are included in this PR?

Use GitHub hosted M1 macOS runner except `r-binary-packages`'s `r-packages` job. It uses macOS 11 but GitHub hosted M1 macOS runner is 13 or 14.

### Are these changes tested?

Yes.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No.
* GitHub Issue: #40077

Authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>