arrow

GH-34157: [C++] Configure bundled AWS SDK to use aws-lc instead of OpenSSL (#34159)

Using OpenSSL causes various issues like https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/33808#issuecomment-1408247269 and https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/34111. We should try to use aws-lc for libcrypto and libssl. We need to hide them inside s2n-tls to avoid name conflicts with OpenSSL used by other libraries.

Some notes:
1. Only linux needs s2n-tls and aws-lc.
2. Because aws-c-http requires curl which requires libcrypto from OpenSSL, we need to hide Aws::libcrypto by S2N_INTERN_LIBCRYPTO=ON. 
3. aws-c-cal also uses libcrypto, but it can't hide it. So we need to use OpenSSL instead of aws-lc for it.
4. Mac and windows don't need s2n-tls, but do need some security libs from system, like `-framework Security` and `ncrypt.lib`. 
5. arrow-s3fs-test is re-enabled.
6. Force Java Gandiva to use static protobuf lib.

* Closes: #34157

Lead-authored-by: Jin Shang <shangjin1997@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: jinshang <jinshang@tencent.com>
Co-authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@cozmixng.org>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>