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ARROW-11081: [Java] Make IPC option immutable

By making it immutable, the following benefits can be obtained:

1. It makes the code easier to reason about.
2. It allows JIT to make more optimizations.
3. Immutable objects can be shared, so many object allocations can be avoided.

Closes #9053 from liyafan82/fly_1231_opt

Authored-by: liyafan82 <fan_li_ya@foxmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Micah Kornfield <emkornfield@gmail.com>