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GH-35042: [Go][FlightSQL driver] Add TLS configuration (#35051)

This PR adds the ability to enable and customize TLS parameters for Golang's `database/sql` driver.
* Closes: #35042

Lead-authored-by: Sven Rebhan <srebhan@influxdata.com>
Co-authored-by: Sven Rebhan <36194019+srebhan@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Kemal <223029+disq@users.noreply.github.com>
Signed-off-by: Matt Topol <zotthewizard@gmail.com>