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GH-33652: [C++][Parquet] Add interface total_compressed_bytes_written (#33897)



### Rationale for this change

### What changes are included in this PR?

Talked in https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/33652 . Main issue is that `total_bytes_written` is confusing, because it only tells the size of "uncompressed" bytes size written. For buffered page writer, the actually written size cannot be known until all column chunk is written and call `sink_.Tell()`.

I'd like to:
* [x] Add interface for PageWriter
* [x] Add interface for ColumnWriter
* [x] Add interface for RowGroupWriter
* [x] Testing them

### Are these changes tested?

I'd like to test it later.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

User can get excatly size written by: `total_compressed_bytes_written() + total_compressed_bytes()` for ColumnWriter before finish writing.

* Closes: #33652

Lead-authored-by: mwish <maplewish117@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: mwish <1506118561@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: Gang Wu <ustcwg@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Will Jones <willjones127@gmail.com>