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GH-40082: [CI][C++] Add a job on ARM64 macOS (#40456)

### Rationale for this change

We can use GitHub hosted M1 macOS runner.

### What changes are included in this PR?

* Add a job on macos-14
* Update expected L2 CPU cache range to 32KiB-12MiB from 32KiB-8MiB because M1 macOS runner has 12MiB
* Disable arrow-s3fs-test for now. It'll be fixed by GH-40410
 
### Are these changes tested?

Yes.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No.
* GitHub Issue: #40082

Authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>