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GH-38844: [C++] S3FileSystem export s3 sdk config "use_virtual_addressing" to arrow::fs::S3Options (#38858)



### Rationale for this change
See #38844 . we should export s3 sdk config "use_virtual_addressing" to arrow::fs::S3Options so that user can decide whether to use virtual hosted by themselves. 

### Are these changes tested?
I tested it with my own OSS(aliyun object store service) bucket.As the it is a S3 compatiable service, I think 
 these changes are covered by existing tests)

### Are there any user-facing changes?

Closes: #38844  

* Closes: #38844

Lead-authored-by: ljw <wearegroot112@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Antoine Pitrou <pitrou@free.fr>
Co-authored-by: jiawei liang <72728602+liangjiawei1110@users.noreply.github.com>
Signed-off-by: Antoine Pitrou <antoine@python.org>