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GH-41799: [Java] Migrate to com.gradle:develocity-maven-extension (#41800)

### Rationale for this change

`com.gradle:gradle-enterprise-maven-extension` has been relocated under a new name. Updating the dependency to pick up latest changes and bug fixes

### What changes are included in this PR?

Migrate `com.gradle:gradle-enterprise-maven-extension` artifact to `com.gradle:develociy-maven-extension`.

Apply steps described at https://docs.gradle.com/develocity/maven-extension/legacy/#develocity_migration to migrate associated files and configuration

### Are these changes tested?

No (not sure if someone can validate configuration changes directly with ge.apache.org)

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No
* GitHub Issue: #41799

Authored-by: Laurent Goujon <laurent@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>