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GH-38060: [Python][CI] Upgrade Spark versions (#38082)

### Rationale for this change

Spark released 3.5.0 and dropped support for Java 8 and 11 on main.

### What changes are included in this PR?

* Upgrade Spark integration tests from v3.4.1 -> 3.5.0
* Use JDK 17 for Spark latest

### Are these changes tested?

Will test in CI

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No
* Closes: #38060

Authored-by: Dane Pitkin <dane@voltrondata.com>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>