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GH-32832: [Go] support building with tinygo (#35723)



### Rationale for this change

To support compiling with tinygo which enables use of arrow in environments where binary size is important, like web assembly.

### What changes are included in this PR?

Using an internal JSON package that uses `goccy/go-json` for regular builds as it does currently, but uses the native `encoding/json` for tinygo builds. This is necessary because go-json has a lot of code that is incompatible with tinygo.

Remove dependency on `parquet` package from non-parquet code since it is also incompatible with tinygo.

Other minor tweaks for compatibility with tinygo.

### Are these changes tested?

Should we add a build step that compiles the example with tinygo?

### Are there any user-facing changes?

None.

* Closes: #32832

Lead-authored-by: Chris Casola <ccasola@factset.com>
Co-authored-by: Adam Gaynor <adam.gaynor@factset.com>
Signed-off-by: Matt Topol <zotthewizard@gmail.com>