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GH-39558: [Java] Add SQL_ALL_TABLES_ARE_SELECTABLE, SQL_NULL_ORDERING and SQL_MAX_COLUMNS_IN_TABLE support to SqlInfoBuilder (#39561)

This PR adds ability to specify `SQL_ALL_TABLES_ARE_SELECTABLE` and `SQL_NULL_ORDERING` metadata in `org.apache.arrow.flight.sql.SqlInfoBuilder`.

### Rationale for this change

Without this change it is impossible to specify whether all tables are selectable, supported null ordering and maximum number of columns in table using `SqlInfoBuilder`.

### What changes are included in this PR?

In this PR two methods are added to `SqlInfoBuilder`:
- `withSqlAllTablesAreSelectable` accepting boolean parameter that specifies whether all tables are selectable
- `withSqlNullOrdering` accepting `org.apache.arrow.flight.sql.impl.FlightSql.SqlNullOrdering` value that specifies supported null ordering
- `withSqlMaxColumnsInTable` accepting long parameter that specifies maximum number of columns in table

### Are these changes tested?

To ensure correctness `org.apache.arrow.flight.TestFlightSql#testGetSqlInfoResultsWithManyArgs` test is added).

### Are there any user-facing changes?

This PR does not contain any breaking changes of user API.

* Closes: #39558

Authored-by: Alexander Blazhkov <ablazhkov@querifylabs.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>