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GH-41717: [Java][Vector] fix issue with ByteBuffer rewind in MessageSerializer (#41718)



### Rationale for this change

### What changes are included in this PR?

#41717 describes issue and change

### Are these changes tested?

CI build

### Are there any user-facing changes?

* GitHub Issue: #41717

Authored-by: PJ Fanning <pjfanning@users.noreply.github.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>