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GH-36055: [JS] Use Node.js 18 in CI (#36147)



### Rationale for this change

Node.js 16 is soon to be EOL, so we will use Node.js 18 with CI.

### What changes are included in this PR?

Use Node.js 18 at `name: NodeJS` in GitHub Actions.

### Are these changes tested?

* I ran `archery docker run debian-js` locally and succeeded
* GitHub Actions `name: NodeJS` succeeds
    * https://github.com/abetomo/arrow/actions/runs/5289906862/jobs/9589326158
        * `docker` and `windows` succeeded
        * In the GitHub Actions for my repository, `macos` timed out. Has it happened before?

### Are there any user-facing changes?

* Closes: #36055

Authored-by: abetomo <abe@enzou.tokyo>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>