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GH-39654: [Java] Upgrade to Netty 4.1.105.Final (#39655)



### Rationale for this change

Netty 4.1.105.Final brings few fixes that would be good to have in Arrow, especially:

- DNS error improvements
- Fix exception on HTTP chunk size overflow
- Save HTTP2 pseudo-header lower-case validation

The release news is there: https://netty.io/news/2024/01/16/4-1-105-Final.html
and the full Release Notes here: https://github.com/netty/netty/issues?q=milestone%3A4.1.105.Final+is%3Aclosed

### What changes are included in this PR?

Netty 4.1.105.Final update.

### Are these changes tested?

Yes tested locally.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

Not directly.

* Closes: #39654

Authored-by: JB Onofré <jbonofre@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>