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GH-41730: [Java] Adding variadicBufferCounts to RecordBatch (#41732)

### Rationale for this change

This PR adds the `variadicBufferCounts` attribute to `ArrowRecordBatch` in Java module. Furthermore, it also updates the `TypeLayout` functions `getTypeBufferCount` and `getTypeLayout` functions along with the corresponding test cases. Previously these changes were listed as issues https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/40934, https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/40935 and https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/40931. These two tickets will also be closed by this PR. 

### What changes are included in this PR?

The introduced two functions to `TypeLayout` is deprecating the old API and adds a new API. In this PR we are updating a few modules to use the new API.  Corresponding tests for the changed functions have also been added. 

This also updates the usage of `ArrowRecordBatch` across other modules and `TypeLayout` usage across a few modules. Some modules were excluded as mentioned in the issues non-goals section to be completed in a follow up effort as the scope and required tasks remain at large.  These modules will still use the deprecated API for TypeLayouts, but documented in the code for updating to the new API in a follow up effort. 

### Closing Subtasks 

- [X] https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/40934
- [X] https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/40935
- [X] https://github.com/apache/arrow/issues/40931

### Are these changes tested?

The changes are tested using existing tests and new tests

### Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes

**This PR includes breaking changes to public APIs.**
* GitHub Issue: #41730

Lead-authored-by: Vibhatha Lakmal Abeykoon <vibhatha@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Vibhatha Abeykoon <vibhatha@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>