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ARROW-14461 [R] write_dataset() allows users to pass invalid additional arguments

This PR aims to add checks to arguments passed to `write_dataset()` via `...`, conditional on the value passed for `format`.

The code below should **not** run without a complaint.
```r
td <- tempfile()
dir.create(td)
write_dataset(iris, td, format = "feather", arg_that_doesnt_make_sense = "blah-blah")
```

Currently `write_dataset()` supports 5 formats (`"parquet"`, `"feather"`, `"arrow"`, `"ipc"`, `"csv"`). Ultimately all formats use `FileWriteOptions$update()`. `"csv"` is the only one that errors on non-relevant additional arguments passed via `...` (without checks). `"arrow"`, `"ipc"` and `"feather"` all use the same `type`  (`dataset___FileWriteOptions__type_name`).

After the implementation in this PR, the same code will error:
```r
> write_dataset(iris, td, format = "feather", arg_that_doesnt_make_sense = "blah-blah")
Error: `arg_that_doesnt_make_sense` is not a valid argument for your chosen `format`.
ℹ Supported arguments: `use_legacy_format`, `metadata_version`, `codec`, and `null_fallback`.
```

Closes #12170 from dragosmg/write_dataset_arg_name_validation

Lead-authored-by: Dragos Moldovan-Grünfeld <dragos.mold@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Dragoș Moldovan-Grünfeld <dragos.mold@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jonathan Keane <jkeane@gmail.com>