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GH-45215:[C++][Acero]Export SequencingQueue and SerialSequencingQueue (#45221)



### Rationale for this change
SequencingQueue and SerialSequencingQueue are useful in creating custom ExecNodes. This patch allows linking to factory functions.

### What changes are included in this PR?

ARROW_ACERO_EXPORT classes

### Are there any user-facing changes?
Users can now directly instantiate and use the SequencingQueue and SerialSequencingQueue classes, enabling easier creation of custom ExecNode.

* GitHub Issue: #45215

Authored-by: kamilt <kamil.tokarek@secom.com.pl>
Signed-off-by: Rossi Sun <zanmato1984@gmail.com>