onnxruntime

Update pool to MacOS-13 (#17361)

### Description
See https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime-extensions/pull/476
and https://github.com/actions/runner-images/issues/7671

### Motivation and Context
<!-- - Why is this change required? What problem does it solve?
- If it fixes an open issue, please link to the issue here. -->

### Current issue
- [ ] For default xcode 15.2, that come with the MacOS-13, We Need to
update the boost container header boost/container_hash/hash.hpp version
to pass the build
- [x] For xcode 14.2 The Build passed but the `Run React Native Detox
Android e2e Test` Failed.
Possible flaky test, https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/21969
- [x] For xcode 14.3.1 We encountered following issue in `Build React
Native Detox iOS e2e Tests`
```
ld: file not found: /Applications/Xcode_14.3.1.app/Contents/Developer/Toolchains/XcodeDefault.xctoolchain/usr/lib/arc/libarclite_iphonesimulator.a
clang: error: linker command failed with exit code 1 (use -v to see invocation)
```
Applied following code to the eof in both ios/Podfile and fixed the
issue
```
post_install do |installer|
    installer.generated_projects.each do |project|
        project.targets.each do |target|
            target.build_configurations.each do |config|
                config.build_settings['IPHONEOS_DEPLOYMENT_TARGET'] = '13.0'
            end
        end
    end
end
```


- [x] https://github.com/facebook/react-native/issues/32483

Applying changes to ios/Pofile
```
pre_install do |installer|
  # Custom pre-install script or commands
  puts "Running pre-install script..."

  # Recommended fix for https://github.com/facebook/react-native/issues/32483
  # from https://github.com/facebook/react-native/issues/32483#issuecomment-966784501
  system("sed -i '' 's/typedef uint8_t clockid_t;//' \"${SRCROOT}/Pods/RCT-Folly/folly/portability/Time.h\"")
end
```

- [ ] Detox environment setting up exceeded time out of 120000ms during
iso e2e test


### dependent 

- [x] https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/21159

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Co-authored-by: Changming Sun <chasun@microsoft.com>