onnxruntime

Adding RunOptions synchronization behaviour to C/C++ API (#14088)

### Description
This is exposing the already existent interface of asynchronous work of
all CUDA base EP's (CUDA + TensorRT).


### Motivation and Context
This is something requested in #12216. It will enable users to build an
efficient data pipeline with ONNXRuntime and CUDA pre-/post-processing.
PCI traffic to the CUDA device can be run during inference as soon as
the postprocessing consumed the input buffer and it can be overwritten.
To do this work has to be submitted async to the device. Please see
below screenshots showing the illustration of this using NSight Systems.

Async: 
<img width="1401" alt="image"
src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/44298237/209894303-706460ed-cbdb-4be2-a2e4-0c111ec875dd.png">

Synchronous:
<img width="1302" alt="image"
src="https://user-images.githubusercontent.com/44298237/209894630-1ce40925-bbd5-470d-b888-46553ab75fb9.png">

Note the gap in between the 2 inference runs due to issuing PCI traffic
in between and to the CPU overhead the active synchronization has.

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Co-authored-by: Chi Lo <chi.lo@microsoft.com>