onnxruntime

Update copy_strip_binary.sh: use "make install" instead (#21464)

### Description
Before this change, copy_strip_binary.sh manually copies each file from
onnx runtime's build folder to an artifact folder. It can be hard when
dealing with symbolic link for shared libraries.
This PR will change the packaging pipelines to run "make install" first,
before packaging shared libs .


### Motivation and Context

Recently because of feature request #21281 , we changed
libonnxruntime.so's SONAME. Now every package that contains this shared
library must also contains libonnxruntime.so.1. Therefore we need to
change the packaging scripts to include this file. Instead of manually
construct the symlink layout, using `make install` is much easier and
will make things more consistent because it is a standard way of making
packages.

**Breaking change:**
After this change, our **inference** tarballs that are published to our
Github release pages will be not contain ORT **training** headers.