onnxruntime

TensorRT EP -  timing cache (#14767)

### Description

This will enable a user to use a TensorRT timing cache based on #10297
to accelerate build times on a device with the same compute capability.
This will work across models as it simply store kernel runtimes for
specific configurations. Those files are usually very small (only a few
MB) which makes them very easy to ship with an application to accelerate
the build time on the user end.

### Motivation and Context
Especially for workstation use cases TRT build times can be a roadblock.
With a few model from ONNX model zoo i evaluated speedups when a timing
cache is present.
`./build/onnxruntime_perf_test -e tensorrt -I -t 5 -i
"trt_timing_cache_enable|true" <onnx_path>`

|Model | no Cache | with Cache|
| ------------- | ------------- | ------------- |
|efficientnet-lite4-11 | 34.6 s | 7.7 s|
|yolov4 | 108.62 s | 9.4 s|

To capture this is had to modify the onnxruntime_perf_test. The time is
sometimes not captured within "Session creation time cost:" which is why
i introduced "First inference time cost:".

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Co-authored-by: Chi Lo <Chi.Lo@microsoft.com>