onnxruntime

fix protobuf copyfrom 2G limit (#16422)

### Description
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protobuf CopyFrom doesn't work for model > 2GB for version 4.23. This PR
removes the copy for Calibrator.

Currently Calibrator copies the ModelProto to avoid changing it. The
reason is that: quantize_static passes a ModelProto to Calibrator to
calibrate quantitation parameters, and then use it for quantization. If
calibrator changes the ModelProto, quantizaiton won't work.

This PR changes quantize_static to pass in a model path to Calibrator
instead of a ModelProto, and make Calibrator only take in model path as
input, which is how it is used in most cases.

This PR also remove the optimization from quantization. User needs to
call pre-process to optimize the model