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[DML EP] Add graph capture (#20257)

This adds a new "Graph Capture" option to the DML ep, similar to the
cuda graph functionality. Here's how graph capture works:

- A user can enable graph capture in the session options by setting
`ep.dml.enable_graph_capture` to `true`
- When they want to capture a run, they set `gpu_graph_id` in their
`RunOptions` to a number bigger than 0 (0 is reserved for internal use
according to the cuda graph documentation).
- Then, when they start the inference, the graph will be captured and
stored in the DML EP for future use
- When they execute the run for a second time with the same id, the
`ReplayGraph` function in the DML EP will be called instead of executing
the kernels, resulting in very low overhead and avoiding kernel
recompilation.

This feature can give up-to-par or even better performance than
specifying the static dimensions at session creation time, but is also
much more flexible.