onnxruntime

Fully dynamic ETW controlled logging for ORT and QNN logs (#20537)

### Description
Windows - Fully dynamic ETW controlled logging for ORT and QNN logs

The logging support is documented here 
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https://onnxruntime.ai/docs/performance/tune-performance/logging_tracing.html#tracing---windows
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https://onnxruntime.ai/docs/performance/tune-performance/profiling-tools.html#tracelogging-etw-windows-profiling

Also add support for logging ORT SessionCreation on ETW CaptureState

### Motivation and Context
The previous ETW support only worked if you enabled ETW before the
session started. There can commonly be long-lived AI inference processes
that need to be traced & debugged. This enables logging fully on the
fly.

Without this support a dev would have to end up killing a process or
stopping a service in order to get tracing. We had to do this for a
recent issue with QNN, and it was a bit painful to get the logs and it
ruined the repro.

### Testing
I tested with the following cases
- Leaving default ORT run
- Enabling ETW prior to start and leaving running for entire session +
inferences, then stopping
- Starting ORT session + inf, then enabling and stopping ETW
  - Start ORT session /w long running Inferences 
- wpr -start
[ort.wprp](https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/blob/e6228575e4d5866bdb831e76cc93e6c35af4de8b/ort.wprp#L4)
-start
[etw_provider.wprp](https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/blob/e6228575e4d5866bdb831e76cc93e6c35af4de8b/onnxruntime/test/platform/windows/logging/etw_provider.wprp)
  - Wait a few seconds
  - wpr -stop ort.etl
  - Inferences are still running
- Verify ONNXRuntimeLogEvent provider events are present and new
SessionCreation_CaptureState event under Microsoft.ML.ONNXRuntime
provider

Related:
#18882
#19428