onnxruntime

Update CK and fix performance issue on dev machine (#13531)

1. Update CK to its latest develop branch
2. `-mllvm -amdgpu-early-inline-all=true` is critical to CK's
performance, ensure it is properly configured.
- The flags are propagated from target `hip-lang::device`'s
`INTERFACE_COMPILE_OPTIONS`, we must not manually add the flags.
- Instead, we must ensure this target is properly configured by checking
_CMAKE_HIP_DEVICE_RUNTIME_TARGET is set.

TL,DR

`hip-lang::device` sometime will be not be properly configured if our
`CMAKE_PREFIX_PATH` is not configured carefully. In the CI docker, the
configuration is in good state, but on dev machine it is not, which then
silently result poor performance for kernels. We fixed it in this PR and
add a guard to avoid unsuccessful future editing and to prevent
convoluted debugging process.

`_CMAKE_HIP_DEVICE_RUNTIME_TARGET ` is shared in
`/opt/rocm/lib/cmake/hip-lang/hip-lang-config.cmake` and it is internal
to
[CMake](https://gitlab.kitware.com/cmake/cmake/-/merge_requests/6121/diffs),
the variable name will not be changed in the foreseeable future.