onnxruntime

use node name in transpose optimizer when adding nodes rather than optype (#22084)

patch from @john-dance

"The main change is simple: Use the original node name rather than the
original node op_type when creating new nodes. Here are my comments on
the change:
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The onnx runtime uses the op_type as the basis for a new node name, so a
node claimed by QNN EP might be named
Conv_token_1 with no relation to the original /conv1/Conv. This patch:
1. Adds OpName as a virtual function in NodeRef and implements it in
ApiNode.
2. AddNode now takes an op_name and op_type and passes them both to
CreateNodeHelper.
3. CreateNodeHelper uses the op_name rather than the op_type in
GenerateNodeName
4. Direct calls to AddNode are modified to either use the NodeRef if
available, or just repeat the op_type if not available.
The result is that the new nodes are named something like
/conv1/Conv_token_1, allowing a straight forward mapping back to the
original model node (if they exist in the original graph)."